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Allow for a margin of error a friend had passed the interviews for an important new job; all that remained was for the president of the company to meet his wife.

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Perhaps the last thing for controlling impatience is to examine your own contribution to it. Are you unwilling to grant children time to learn, or slow people time to accomplish a task? If impatience is only occasional, your annoyance will pass. But if you’re almost always irritable and abrupt, you may well feel thai you’re just too important to ever be kept waiting for anyone or anything.